I mean sometimes things change person to person but certain things just stay a no. I can't picture you using a paddle. With the bondage, I'd prefer you touching me anyway.
hm, when you put it that way, it sounds pretty serious! i need to think more on this.
i think with the right person, you'll talk these things out. oh, like we are now! i like your thoughts, you know. i'm glad we're on the same page about hitting. it's just really not in my dna or something. i'm glad about the other thing you said too. that's nice to think about.
it should be safe, too, right? it means being really vulnerable and possibly maybe opening yourself up to being embarrassed or unsure with someone until you figure things out. so it's good if that feels safe! i hope that it does here.
wow! that's a whole rainbow and then some. well. no purple. i'll have to remember that...
can you really blame me? you do all these really wonderful things and that's why i react this way.
yeah, it can be a really uncertain thing. and sort of scary! but i think it makes it even nicer when you realize you really ARE comfortable with someone!
maaaaybe? i might've thought about it just now!
i like how sweet you are. i like you period, sungmin. an awful lot.
and it's hard to break out of that. i think that's maybe a sign you should change. if you feel like you can't get up and go do the thing that'd make your life better or easier or healthier. that's all the more reason to try, right?
you're very cute when you blush. with those dimples? that's like a one hit ko!!
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I mean sometimes things change person to person but certain things just stay a no. I can't picture you using a paddle. With the bondage, I'd prefer you touching me anyway.
I have a lot. All colors!
I like making you blush .
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i think with the right person, you'll talk these things out. oh, like we are now! i like your thoughts, you know. i'm glad we're on the same page about hitting. it's just really not in my dna or something. i'm glad about the other thing you said too. that's nice to think about.
ok, how many colors exactly? do you know?
i get the feeling you won't stop anytime soon!
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It is very important to talk about likes, dislikes and limits! Intimacy is supposed to feel good. I like the thought very much.
Black, grey, pink, yellow, red, green, blue, white and orange.
Not when I know you like it.
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it should be safe, too, right? it means being really vulnerable and possibly maybe opening yourself up to being embarrassed or unsure with someone until you figure things out. so it's good if that feels safe! i hope that it does here.
wow! that's a whole rainbow and then some. well. no purple. i'll have to remember that...
can you really blame me? you do all these really wonderful things and that's why i react this way.
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Oh yes, safe is very important, especially when you're figuring things out and exposing what you like.
Are you going to get me purple?
You deserve it and I like how you react.
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yeah, it can be a really uncertain thing. and sort of scary! but i think it makes it even nicer when you realize you really ARE comfortable with someone!
maaaaybe? i might've thought about it just now!
i like how sweet you are. i like you period, sungmin. an awful lot.
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i think feeling comfortable with someone is the nicest thing of all. it connects you to them and the world too.
you don't have to, you know!
i like you so much.
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that's how i see it too. it helps you feel safe. and if you're safe, you can be at peace. that's important.
i want to! i really, really want to. i'd like to.
so, so much?
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peace is also a new feeling.
two really. that's serious.
so so so so much.
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really? i hope you feel it so much more, sungmin. so much.
yes!! it was a double-really situation.
so so so so soooo much?
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do you feel it a lot?
yes! the most so that you can give!
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i think i do. i don't think i feel the opposite of it a lot, if that makes sense?
oh wow, that much??
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i'm glad because unease isn't pleasant.
that much and more.
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no, it's not. it's hard to deal with that feeling, i think. i have a hard time with it.
and more? wow, i'm overwhelmed! in a good way.
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sometimes it pushes you. motivates you.
as long as it's good!
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right. it's sometimes hard to want to change if things are comfortable, even if that "comfortable" place isn't the best one for you.
oh, it's more than good. it's great. it's awesome! it's... amazing. like you.
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comfortable can sometimes hold you back.
all those words are for you too.
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it's hard. you can mistake comfortable for safe. i don't think it's bad to be safe, do you?
and once again, you've got me blushing, charming flirt.
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Safe isn't had it it doesn't prevent you from things.
As I wanted, cutie smiles.
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right. it's only bad if it's a cage, not a shelter?
i'll be sure to keep telling you every time you do it!
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exactly, if the comfort keeps you caged in then it's not good.
sometimes you make me blush too.
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and it's hard to break out of that. i think that's maybe a sign you should change. if you feel like you can't get up and go do the thing that'd make your life better or easier or healthier. that's all the more reason to try, right?
you're very cute when you blush. with those dimples? that's like a one hit ko!!