[ There were plenty of things Sungmin found confusing about the ground, the labeling and categories being one of the major ones. Why did it matter so much what someone needed to define as? Why did everyone feel the need to categorize with such confining labels? Didn't they realise how things shifted and changed just like the ocean tide? An ebb and flow. But he supposed they were more prone to settling everyone in certain places on the ground.

Listening carefully to Dash, he nodded his head against the pillow. ]

I'm really glad you think this way and not like some of the others. I had a lot to grasp onto when I first came to the land and needed to know pronouns to assign to myself. I never faced that before. [ They were all just sirens in the waters and not defined as male, female, nonbinary or something else. ]

I suppose sometimes I feel .....my gender I guess you could say would be fluid. [ As in sometimes he experienced a more feminine mindset as defined by their labeling and other times more male. ] It's not highly acceptable I've found.

Does it bother you? I can refrain from some fashion choices or -- [ He waved a hand through the air as if it explained everything else. ]